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Thanks so much and that's how I felt, since I grew up in the same town as this woman, she isn't a personal friend but we have many of the same friends, she knew when she met him we were a couple. If he has been talking to her as a friend okay but why act like you don't know me when you use to speak all the time. Plus if he had an affair when we were split why is that your business and why point it out to me if you unless you wanted to start trouble...I really haven't discussed this with him cause he's ill, but when I do I feel he needs to tell her in front of me that she crossed the line in their friendship.

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Iran condemns US for taking group off terror list

FILE - In this Jan. 25, 2011 file photo, Maryam Rajavi, President-elect of Iranian opposition party National Council of Resistance of Iran, smiles as she attends an international conference on Iran policy in Brussels. Maryam Rajavi, the Paris-based head of the exiled opposition group, said in an interview that she hopes the organization can now have the ear of the world's diplomats to help bolster its bid to overthrow Iran's clerical regime. She stressed that its goal was to replace the Islamic Republic with a democratic government, Friday, Sept. 28, 2012. (AP Photo/Yves Logghe, File)

FILE - In this Jan. 25, 2011 file photo, Maryam Rajavi, President-elect of Iranian opposition party National Council of Resistance of Iran, smiles as she attends an international conference on Iran policy in Brussels. Maryam Rajavi, the Paris-based head of the exiled opposition group, said in an interview that she hopes the organization can now have the ear of the world's diplomats to help bolster its bid to overthrow Iran's clerical regime. She stressed that its goal was to replace the Islamic Republic with a democratic government, Friday, Sept. 28, 2012. (AP Photo/Yves Logghe, File)

(AP) ? Iran condemned on Saturday the Obama administration for taking an Iranian militant group formerly allied with Saddam Hussein off the U.S. terrorism list, saying it shows Washington's "double standards."

The Mujahedeen-e-Khalq (MEK), which began as a guerrilla movement fighting Shah Mohammed Reza Pahlavi, helped overthrow the monarch in 1979 then quickly fell out with the Islamic Republic's first leader, Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini. It fought in the 1980s alongside Saddam's forces in the eight-year Iran-Iraq war but disarmed after the U.S. invasion of Iraq in 2003.

The State Department delisted the group on Friday, meaning that any assets the MEK has in the United States are unblocked and Americans can do business with the organization. On Saturday, at their Paris headquarters, MEK members gathered to celebrate, tossing flower petals and displaying photos of members killed in the past 15 years.

"We call on the international community to respect the will of the Iranian people for a regime change in Iran," Maryam Rajavi, the Paris-based head of the exiled opposition group, said Saturday.

Iran's foreign ministry said in a statement that the delisting of MEK was "a violation of America's legal and international obligations" that could threaten U.S. interests. The decision "will bring U.S. responsibility for past, present and future terrorist operations by this group," the statement also said.

Iranian State TV criticized the decision, saying that the U.S. considered the MEK "good terrorists" and claims Washington is using the group to work against Tehran. State radio said the move highlights President Barack Obama's anti-Iranian sentiments.

"There is much evidence of the group being involved in terrorist activities. Delisting them shows America's double standard policy on terrorism," state TV said. The U.S. distinguishes between "good and bad terrorists" and the MEK are now "good terrorists because the U.S. is using them against Iran," the report also said, adding that Washington and Israel use the group to spy on Iran's nuclear program.

The U.S. and its allies accuse Iran of using its civilian nuclear program as a cover to develop nuclear weapons. Iran has denied the claims, saying the program is peaceful and is intended for electricity generation and scientific research.

The State Department said the MEK hasn't committed terror for more than a decade. The group has also complied with demands that over 3,000 of its once-armed members abandon their base in Iraq near the Iranian border for a camp outside Baghdad, an essential step to ending their decades-long presence in Iraq.

The group claims it is seeking regime change through peaceful means, aiming to replace Tehran's clerical system with a secular government.

However, a senior State Department official suggested that removing MEK from the U.S. terrorist list does not translate into a shared common front against the Islamic Republic. The official said Washington does not view MEK as an opposition movement that can promote democratic values in Iran. The official on Friday briefed reporters on condition of anonymity because he wasn't authorized to speak publicly on the matter.

In a rare interview on Friday, Rajavi said "the most important impact ... will be seen inside Iran."

"The balance of power is going to change. For example, the first message for the Iranian people will be they won't fear increasing their activity and increasing their demonstrations," she said. The fear "will evaporate ... and that will lead to the expansion of anti-regime activities within Iran."

Iran says MEK is responsible for the deaths of more than 12,000 Iranians over the past three decades, including senior government officials.

The MEK spent huge sums of money over years lobbying for removal from the U.S. terror list, holding rallies in European capitals and elsewhere that featured luminaries like former Homeland Security Secretary Tom Ridge from the administration of George W. Bush. Former House Speaker and presidential candidate Newt Gingrich was among those recently welcomed by the MEK to Paris.

The group was protected in Iraq under Saddam Hussein, but its members are disliked by the new Iraqi government, dominated by Shiite Muslims like those in Iran.

The United States had insisted the MEK's members leave Camp Ashraf, their home in Iraq, as a condition for removal from the terrorist list. All but several hundred militants are now located in Camp Liberty, a former U.S. base outside Baghdad, looking for placement in third countries.

The MEK was removed from the European Union's terrorist list in 2009.

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Associated Press writer Ali Akbar Dareini contributed from Tehran, Iran.

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'Hotel Transylvania' checks in with $43M debut

LOS ANGELES (AP) ? Adam Sandler's monster mash-up "Hotel Transylvania" has brought the weekend box office back to life after a late-summer slump.

According to studio estimates Sunday, the animated comedy debuted at No. 1 with $43 million, one of the strongest starts ever for a movie opening in September.

"Hotel Transylvania" set a new high for September debuts in terms of actual dollars, beating the previous record of $35.7 million for 2002's "Sweet Home Alabama." But factoring in today's higher admission prices, "Sweet Home Alabama" sold more tickets.

This weekend's box office was further strengthened by a solid No. 2 debut for Bruce Willis and Joseph Gordon-Levitt's time-travel thriller "Looper," which took in $21.2 million.

Hollywood's overall grosses rose for the first time in a month compared to the same weekend last year.

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Saturday, September 29, 2012

My spiritual journey: "Right to life"

This phrase started spinning in my mind this afternoon, driving home from work. What was the fragile stream of thoughts that brought it up? Thinking is such a fleeting activity!?Especially good thoughts -- they alight for a moment, like a shy forest creature, then they bound away. The bad thoughts, on the other hand, the worries that keep me up at night or memories of petty conflicts -- those linger! (I'm getting better at telling them to get lost, though!)

I was remembering my best friend's dad, who died of Lou Gehrig's disease, surely one of the crueler ways to die. The mind stays intact while the body disintegrates and stops functioning. Eventually, the person cannot swallow or eat unaided anymore. This man, Paul, and his whole family, were pillars of Christian faith. His daughter led me to the church, where I remain today. But the end of his life was a great struggle for Paul. He wrote a letter about it, which his family distributed to friends and family when he died. He said that where he was going, we all must go, but he did not go there willingly. He was kicking and screaming the whole way to the end!

So it seems that whether or not we are people of faith does not necessarily change how we face death. There was Henri Nouwen, who had a near-death experience and an encounter with his Lord and savior, and did not want to come back to life, the great vale of tears, ever again! But there are many people like Paul, who cling to life until the last breath is drawn.

The attitude of the faithful toward the plight of Terry Schiavo always confused me. If deeply religious people believe that we go to heaven when we die, why would they want someone to remain here in the lowest condition, force-fed, possibly against her will? The crux of the matter in that case was that no one knew the will of Terry herself, just what her family desired. Different family members wanted different things, and we all got to watch the drama unfold in our living rooms.

The religious right have a "culture of life" they want to promote to give everyone the "right to life." I dispute that we ever have a right to life. If that's true, why do so many people die young? What happened to their rights? Someone trampled them! Was it God, or Satan, or some merely secular force at work? Some die before ever being born, some in the process of birth, others soon after, and on and on.

There is no right to life if you are living here on earth. It's a ludicrous idea. People in African countries have even less right to life than the rest of us, apparently, given the younger average age at which they die. Having a "right" to anything is a particularly human concept, I think, not helpful but clinging to the illusion of control (as Buddhists would say, the root of all suffering). Life is never a right. It's a precious and fleeting gift, and there is no guarantee that you will have it for any particular length of time.

I wish that the outrage directed at abortions could also be directed against the atrocities that full-grown people commit against one another all the time. If an unborn child is deserving of that much respect and attention, what about people out of the womb? I don't like to think that some people may be using the emotional attachments that babies command to manipulate people's emotions, and their beliefs, and their vote. And what about all the causes of a shortened life that we could control or end -- malaria, AIDS, poverty, disease, violence, lack of access to clean water and food? While we sit in relative luxury in the U.S., most of us hoarding our money and other resources, people are dying around the world. These are our brothers and sisters. What are we doing about it? I don't have the answers. I'm as guilty as anyone else of having my blinders on, so I can continue doing the things that are comfortable for me in my little insulated box that I call a life.

Honestly, I don't sit down with the intention of ending up here, but I always seem to get to this big question -- it's the BIG one, honey! -- why so much suffering? Why can't we end it?

Source: http://juliespiritpath.blogspot.com/2012/09/right-to-life.html

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Could Bioengineered Organisms Spread "Genetic Pollution" After Being Released into Nature?

genetically modified organismWILD PITCH: The release of genetically modified organisms into the environment threatens genetic diversity, which is essential for global food security. And a lack of genetic diversity in agriculture, says Greenpeace, can already be linked to many of the major crop epidemics in human history. Image: Punch Stock

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Dear EarthTalk: What is ?genetic pollution? as it pertains to the bioengineering of animals, fish and plants, and what happens if they cross breed with their wild cousins??R. Ahearn, Rome, N.Y.

Genetically modified organisms are those that have been altered by scientists to include genes from other organisms (known as transgenes) that may impart specific benefits. For instance, crop seeds that have added genes which resist the effects of herbicides can allow farmers to spray their fields liberally with herbicides to kill undesired weeds without the fear of killing their marketable crop along with them.

Genetic pollution is the release into the natural environment of these altered genes, creating the risk that they might breed with wild plants or animals and spread out uncontrollably. Reports author Jeremy Rifkin in his landmark 1998 book, The Biotech Century: ?Some of those releases?could wreak havoc with the planet?s biosphere, spreading destabilizing and even deadly genetic pollution across the world.?

To follow through on the previous crop seed example: If herbicide-resistant, genetically engineered crops were to breed with their wild cousins, it could lead to the creation of super-weeds undeterred by control efforts. The weeds could, in turn, edge out native species and drive them to extinction, causing an overall loss of genetic diversity. According to Greenpeace, crop genetic diversity is ?essential for global food security? and a lack of it can be linked to many of the major crop epidemics in human history, including the Southern corn leaf blight in the U.S. in 1970. They quote noted botanist Jack Harlan who said that genetic diversity is all that ?stands between us and catastrophic starvation on a scale we can not imagine.?

To track the growing problem of genetic pollution, Greenpeace International, along with GeneWatch UK, launched the GM Contamination Register in 2005 (the ?GM? stands for Genetic Modification). This free online database details publicly documented incidents of contamination arising from the intentional or accidental release of genetically modified organisms into the environment as well as any accompanying negative agricultural side effects. Individuals, public interest groups and governments make use of the register to see where, when and how contamination has occurred. So far in 2011 alone more than a dozen cases of contamination?from Australia, Asia, Europe and the U.S.?have been reported in the register.

Gene pollution as it pertains to crops is only part of the concern. A Canadian company, AquaBounty, is seeking approval from the U.S. Food & Drug Administration to sell genetically modified Atlantic salmon in the U.S. These fish have a growth hormone gene from Chinook salmon (native to the North Pacific) and an anti-freeze protein gene from another fish, the ocean pout (native to the Northwest Atlantic). The resulting transgenic salmon produce growth hormones all year long?not just during the warmer months like other fish?and as such reach maturity faster than their non-genetically modified counterparts.

?There are concerns about the impact of GM salmon on wild salmon should it escape into rivers or the Atlantic ocean, because it could out-compete wild salmon for food, or breed with them producing offspring that may be less fit to survive,? reports GeneWatch UK. ?This could have serious negative effects on declining or endangered wild salmon populations.?

CONTACTS: GeneWatch UK, www.genewatch.org; Greenpeace International, www.greenpeace.org/international; GM Contamination Register, www.gmcontaminationregister.org; AquaBounty, www.aquabounty.com.

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Romney: Military strike on Iran may be unnecessary

BOSTON (AP) ? Mitt Romney says he doesn't believe military action will be necessary to prevent Iran from obtaining nuclear weapons.

The Republican presidential nominee says he discussed the issue with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu (neh-ten-YAH'-hoo) by telephone Friday afternoon. Romney later told reporters traveling with him that it's unclear whether there is any difference between their so-called "red lines" on when launching military action against Iran would be appropriate.

Romney says he can't completely take the military option off the table because Iran needs to take the threat seriously. But he says he does not believe force will ultimately be needed.

Netanyahu argues that an attack on Iran's nuclear facilities may be the only answer.

President Barack Obama also spoke to Netanyahu on Friday.

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Friday, September 28, 2012

US stock futures head lower on Spain worries

NEW YORK (AP) ? U.S. stock futures are down as investors fret over the economy of Spain, which this week announced big spending cuts it hopes will convince potential bailout creditors and investors that it has a rock-solid plan to heal its public finances.

Dow futures are down 49 points to 13,365. The broader S&P 500 futures are down 5 points to 1,436. Nasdaq futures are down 8 points to 2,807.

The positive momentum generated by Thursday's Spanish budget has ground to a halt as investors await more news, including stress test results into 14 banks due after European markets close. The Moody's rating agency is also expected to weigh in on Spain's creditworthiness.

Investors will also be looking at a U.S. report on August consumer spending, due at 8:30 a.m. EDT.

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Thursday, September 27, 2012

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    Tips: How to protect yourself from financial abuse, coerced debt







    By Susan?Ladika

    Knowledge is power if you're a victim of coerced debt.

    Victims of this form of financial abuse, which studies have found can coincide with domestic violence, often are blindsided when they learn their abuser has run up tens of thousands of dollars in unpaid debt in their name, ruining their credit in the process.

    If you're suspicious of what's going on, you need to monitor your financial affairs. But that can be a challenge if you're still living with your abuser.

    Domestic violence victims, what to do when financially abused

    Laura Russell, supervising attorney with The Legal Aid Society in New York, cautions, "Whatever she does, she has to do it safely." She suggests going to the local library to do your digging so there's no record on your home computer.

    You're entitled to a free credit report from the three main credit reporting agencies each year at AnnualCreditReport.com, so Russell suggests pulling a different report every four months to make sure there are no credit cards you're not aware of, and no missed payments, under your name.

    Also check bank accounts and county records to make sure your name is on the deed to your home, she says.

    While it may be hard to imagine that your spouse or partner has stolen your identity, in reality it's not uncommon. ?

    Nikki Junker, victim adviser and social media manager with the nonprofit Identity Theft Resource Center, often advises domestic violence victims. Her first suggestion is to take out a restraining order against your abuser.

    Then file a police report that your identity has been stolen and report credit cards that have been taken out in your name. "Leave a legal trail," she says.

    Other important steps are:

    • Putting a on your credit report. Contact one of three main credit bureaus -- Experian, Equifax or TransUnion. If you contact one, they're required to contact the other two.
    • Calling and notifying banks and credit card companies about fraudulent activity and close accounts.
    • Putting a , if your state allows it. That restricts access to your credit report, unless you temporarily lift it, making it tough for your partner to open a new account in your name.
    • Opening a post office box to prevent your abuser from getting his hands on credit card offers sent to you.
    • Changing PIN numbers and passwords associated with your accounts.
    • Considering requesting the Social Security Administration to change your Social Security number.

    For more information on steps you can take if you've been the victim of domestic violence, you can order the Guide to Consumer Rights of Domestic Violence Survivors for $15 from the National Consumer Law Center.?

    You can also contact the Identity Theft Resource Center for advice.

    Tips are also available online from the Federal Trade Commission and the New York Department of State Division of Consumer Protection.

    See related: , 10 things you should know about identity theft

    Published: September 26, 2012

    Source: http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-news/financial-abuse-tips-1282.php

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    Asia's budget airline boom bypasses China

    In this Tuesday, Sept. 25, 2012 photo, budget airlines' passenger jets, Malaysia's AirAsia, top, Indonesia's Badavia Air, third from bottom and bottom, and Indonesia's Lion Air, second bottom, are parked on the tarmac with Indonesian planes of domestic airline Merpati Nusantara, second top, and the flagship carrier Garuda Indonesia at Juanda International Airport in Surabaya, East Java, Indonesia. From almost none a decade ago, Asia now has more than 50 low cost carriers. The fast growth of no-frills airlines underline surging demand in the region for affordable air travel. (AP Photo/Trisnadi)

    In this Tuesday, Sept. 25, 2012 photo, budget airlines' passenger jets, Malaysia's AirAsia, top, Indonesia's Badavia Air, third from bottom and bottom, and Indonesia's Lion Air, second bottom, are parked on the tarmac with Indonesian planes of domestic airline Merpati Nusantara, second top, and the flagship carrier Garuda Indonesia at Juanda International Airport in Surabaya, East Java, Indonesia. From almost none a decade ago, Asia now has more than 50 low cost carriers. The fast growth of no-frills airlines underline surging demand in the region for affordable air travel. (AP Photo/Trisnadi)

    In this Wednesday, Sept. 26, 2012 photo, Chinese passengers use self check-in machines at the Beijing Capital International Airport in Beijing. From almost none a decade ago, Asia now has more than 50 low cost carriers. The fast growth of no-frills airlines underline surging demand in the region for affordable air travel. But in China, where the government still keeps tight control of the rapidly growing airline industry, three big state-owned carriers dominate, leaving Chinese travelers out of the massive budget airline boom that has swept the region. (AP Photo/Andy Wong)

    In this Wednesday, Sept. 26, 2012 photo, a passenger carries her luggage past a flight direction sign at the Beijing Capital International Airport in Beijing. From almost none a decade ago, Asia now has more than 50 low cost carriers. The fast growth of no-frills airlines underline surging demand in the region for affordable air travel. But in China, where the government still keeps tight control of the rapidly growing airline industry, three big state-owned carriers dominate, leaving Chinese travelers out of the massive budget airline boom that has swept the region. (AP Photo/Andy Wong)

    In this Wednesday, Sept. 26, 2012 photo, a Muslim woman talks on her mobile phone outside an AirAsia ticketing office in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. The fast growth of no-frills airlines such as AirAsia and the slew of recent start-ups including Singapore's Scoot and AirAsia Japan underline surging demand in the region for affordable air travel. But in China, where the government still keeps tight control of the rapidly growing airline industry, three big state-owned carriers dominate, leaving Chinese travelers out of the massive budget airline boom that has swept the region. (AP Photo/Lai Seng Sin)

    In this Sept. 21, 2012 photo, passengers line up at a check-in counter of Spring Airline at Hongqiao Airport in Shanghai, China. A budget airline boom that is sweeping Asia is leaving Chinese travelers behind. From almost none a decade ago, the region now has more than 50 low cost carriers. But China's government still keeps tight control of the rapidly growing airline industry. Even for tickets on Shanghai-based Spring Airlines, considered China's only discount carrier, "their price is just as same as the big airlines" during high season, Ren Hong, a 37-year-old who runs an export business and also blogs about her travels in her spare time, said. (AP Photo/Eugene Hoshiko)

    (AP) ? When businesswoman Ren Hong flew home after a recent trip to Beijing on state-owned Air China, she was hoping for a decent inflight meal to tide her over until she got back to the spicy cuisine of her native Sichuan province.

    The airline's meager offering, which was little more than "just bread," was a galling experience for Ren who wondered why the carrier didn't cut both the pretense of full service and the price of the ticket.

    Her gripe highlights how Chinese travelers have been left out of the massive budget airline boom that has swept Asia. From almost none a decade ago, the region now has more than 50 low cost carriers. The fast growth of no-frills airlines such as AirAsia and the slew of recent start-ups including Singapore's Scoot and AirAsia Japan underline surging demand in the region for affordable air travel. The rise of budget carriers in Asia follows similar expansion in Europe and North America in previous decades.

    But in China, where the government still keeps tight control of the rapidly growing airline industry, three big state-owned carriers dominate. Aviation authorities' efforts to shield them, as well as keep the industry from growing too rapidly and compromising safety, mean travelers like Ren pay up to twice as much.

    "I've found that flight tickets domestically sometimes are more expensive than the international ones due to monopolization and less competition," said Ren, a 37-year-old who runs an export business and also blogs about her travels in her spare time. Even for tickets on Shanghai-based Spring Airlines, considered China's only discount carrier, "their price is just as same as the big airlines" during high season, she said.

    While Chinese travelers are benefiting from foreign budget airlines flying to some Chinese cities, analysts and consultants say government policy measures are preventing the domestic aviation market from opening up too quickly. China's domestic market is one of the biggest prizes in Asia's travel industry, with 264 million passengers last year, according to the Civil Aviation Authority of China, which forecasts the number will grow about six-fold by 2030.

    "The domestic market in China has more or less remained a fortress," Xiaowen Fu, an aviation expert at Hong Kong Polytechnic University, said at a recent conference in Macau organized by the Sydney-based CAPA-Center for Aviation.

    Like other essential industries in China, the policy measures are aimed at protecting the chosen few national champions from too much competition. China's three major state-owned airlines, Beijing-based Air China Ltd., Shanghai-based China Eastern Airlines Corp. and Guangzhou-based China Southern Airlines Ltd., carried 191 million passengers among them in 2011. But in the first half of 2012 their profits collapsed because of higher fuel prices and foreign currency losses. The rest of the market is divided between smaller state carriers ? some owned by the big three ? and a handful of private operators.

    An unsurprising outcome of the cossetted state airline industry is a perpetual sense of grievance among travelers at poor service and lack of choice.

    "The food on Chinese airlines is worse and more basic than it is on the international airlines," said 25-year-old Li Peng, who recently quit his job in Beijing to travel overseas for a year.

    "And when the flight is delayed, I never get any feedback after my complaints. Many flights are delayed more than two hours" he said. "I do wish there were more budget airlines, especially in China," he said.

    China's civil aviation policy hinders the country's budget airline industry in two ways, according to experts. First, it makes it almost impossible for a private company to start a new airline. Second, the policy limits growth by existing airlines, including state-run carriers, through measures including requiring approvals for new airplanes and routes.

    For airlines operating in China, "they've got constraints whether it be on operating strategy, or what they're allowed to do at the airports, or how they're allowed to recruit pilots, or what the airport charges," said Con Korfiatis, director of Flight Ideas Consulting. "So the low-cost carrier explosion in China is still being constrained."

    In contrast, discount airlines continue to spread their wings elsewhere in Asia. Three started flying in Japan this year, including Peach Aviation and local ventures from Malaysia's AirAsia and Australia's Jetstar. Also taking flight in 2012 were Singapore Airlines' Scoot, Thai Airways International's Thai Smile and AirAsia Philippines. Next year, Indonesia's Lion Air plans to start flights on Malindo Airways, a low-cost Malaysia operation, the company said earlier this month.

    Even China Eastern Airlines Co. is joining in, although its low-cost carrier is a joint venture with Qantas subsidiary Jetstar that will be based in Hong Kong rather than mainland China.

    The Civil Aviation Authority of China hinted in July that it would support budget airlines by loosening price controls. But director Li Jiaxiang stopped short of announcing any major policy reforms.

    The measures aren't just aimed at China's private or discount carriers ? they also apply to China's state-owned carriers. Analysts say policies are designed to prevent unfettered growth. Authorities clamped down following a spell of supercharged growth during which the number of passengers expanded by 40 percent in 2003-2004. Such red-hot growth puts tremendous strain on pilots and infrastructure such as air traffic control and airports, especially on heavily congested air routes between major Chinese cities including Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou.

    "The market is already growing at 11-16 percent domestically at average fares," said Mario Hardy, a vice president at research firm UBM Aviation. "Imagine if an AirAsia or a Spring was able tomorrow to lower that price by half. How many more people would be travelling?"

    Hardy and other experts and industry insiders believe that Chinese authorities will allow the aviation market to open up gradually so that there's enough time to build up the required infrastructure. China is building 82 new airports and renovating 101 others in a five-year plan that runs until 2015.

    "Otherwise it will be a mess," Hardy said. "It would be chaos."

    Until then, travelers like Ren, the businesswoman and travel blogger, will have to put up with higher prices. Ren is thinking of going to India on her next trip but is disappointed with the limited options. She could fly with Air China at a cost of 4,000-5,000 yuan ($$635-$790) round trip. Or she could pay 2,000 yuan ($320) on AirAsia ? but she would need to change planes at AirAsia's home base in Malaysia.

    "It's annoying," said Ren. But "life is not perfect and I have no choice. I could not ask for the flight to be both cheap and offer the perfect route."

    ______

    Researcher Fu Ting in Shanghai contributed to this report

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    Wednesday, September 26, 2012

    Samsung reportedly developing its own mobile browser, just as it always has done

    Android Central

    The Internet's in a bit of a tizzy this morning over reports from a Korean news that Samsung has begun development of its own WebKit-based mobile browser, to be used in future smartphones. ETNews reports that Samsung's browser will be offered as an alternative to Google Chrome on mobile. WebKit, of course, is the open-source software at the core of many mobile and desktop browsers, including Chrome, the native Android browser, and Safari. Today's report says Samsung has recruited several "WebKit professionals" in order to accelerate its browser efforts. The project is said to be based out of the Samsung Information Systems America R&D Center in Silicon Valley.

    While this would be a fairly noteworthy development, it's not as big a deal as you might think. Google has been pushing Chrome as the default browser for Android for a while now, and it comes pre-loaded on upcoming phones like the RAZR M and RAZR HD, as well as Samsung's own Galaxy Camera. Samsung's already shown that it wants to foster its own ecosystem rather than relying on Google's. Competing Samsung and Google services are numerous -- Music Hub versus Play Music, Video Hub versus Play Videos and TV, Samsung Apps versus Play Store. So with Google taking the initiative to push Chrome center stage, a reaction from Samsung was only natural.

    But today's news is only a natural progression of the work Samsung's been doing on its own native Android browser for the past several years. If you examine the bundled browser on a Samsung phone, you'll find it's quite far from the stock Android browser. Samsung was the first to introduce tiled rendering on Android in the Galaxy S2, and on the Galaxy S3 it offered its own unique tab control and power saving options. Other Android OEMs have done the same, so in a way they all have their own mobile browsers. And with Chrome replacing the stock browser as the default on Android handsets, we wouldn't be terribly surprised to see the likes of HTC and LG follow a similar path.

    It's possible Samsung might be developing its browser from the ground up, based upon WebKit, though today's article is light on technical details like this. What we think is more likely is that we'll find Samsung's own S Browser, based upon the speedy stock Jelly Bean browser, made available alongside Chrome on future Samsung Android handsets. And really, that's not all that different from the way things work right now.

    Source: ETNews, via SamMobile



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    Prescription drug abuse drops among U.S. young adults - WAFB 9 ...

    MONDAY, Sept. 24 (HealthDay News) -- Prescription drug abuse among young adults ages 18 to 25 in the United States fell 14 percent between 2010 and 2011, according to a federal report released Monday.

    During that time, the number of young adults who reported using prescription drugs for non-medical purposes in the last month decreased from 2 million to 1.7 million. However, prescription drug abuse among children ages 12 to 17 and among adults 26 and older remained unchanged.

    The 2011 National Survey on Drug Use and Health also found that rates of drinking, binge drinking and heavy drinking in the past month among underage people continued to decline from 2002, the U.S. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration said.

    Among young people ages 12 to 20, past month alcohol use fell from nearly 29 percent in 2002 to about 25 percent in 2011. Binge drinking -- consuming five or more drinks on a single occasion on at least one day in the past month -- declined from more than 19 percent to about 16 percent, and heavy drinking decreased from about 6 percent to 4.4 percent.

    The use of illicit drugs remained stable. Illicit drug use within the past month was reported by 8.7 percent of Americans aged 12 and older in 2010, compared to 8.9 percent last year, according to the report released during National Recovery Month.

    Marijuana remained the most commonly used illegal drug. It was used by 7 percent of Americans in 2011, compared with nearly 6 percent in 2007. The rate of marijuana use among 12- to 17-year-olds was about the same in 2011 (7.9 percent) as in 2009 (7.4 percent).

    Among the other findings:

    - The number of people who reported heroin use in the past year rose from 373,000 in 2007 to 620,000 in 2011.

    - Between 2006 and 2011, there were reductions in reported past month use of cocaine (44 percent) and of methamphetamine (40 percent). There was a 19 percent decrease in past-month use of hallucinogens between 2010 and 2011.

    - Past month use of tobacco by 12- to 17-year-olds continued to decline from more than 15 percent in 2002, to 10.7 percent in 2010 and 10 percent in 2011.

    "These findings show that national efforts to address the problem of prescription drug misuse may be beginning to bear fruit and we must continue to apply this pressure to drive down this and other forms of substance use," SAMHSA Administrator Pamela Hyde said in an agency news release.

    "Behind each of these statistics are individuals, families and communities suffering from the consequences of abuse and addiction. We must continue to promote robust prevention, treatment and recovery programs throughout our country," she added.

    Gil Kerlikowske, director of National Drug Control Policy, said in the news release: "Drug use in this country creates too many obstacles to opportunity -- especially for young people. The good news is that we are not powerless against this problem. By emphasizing prevention and treatment, as well as smart law enforcement efforts that break the cycle of drug use, crime and incarceration, we know we can reduce drug use and its consequences in America."

    More information

    The U.S. National Institute on Drug Abuse explains how to identify and prevent prescription drug abuse.

    Copyright ? 2012 HealthDay. All rights reserved.

    Source: http://www.wafb.com/story/19625121/prescription-drug-abuse-drops-among-us-young-adults

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    Nintendo announces 23 games launching with Wii U console in ...

    By: Gillian Shaw

    VANCOUVER ? It?s going to be games galore November 18 when Nintendo unveils 23 games, marking the launch of its new Wii U game console with its biggest launch-day game release ever.

    The high definition Wii U, which is available for pre-order now, starting at $300 for the basic 8GB system in white, is the successor to Nintendo?s popular Wii console. A Deluxe Set, which comes in black, has 32GB storage, more accessories and is bundled with Nintendo Land, has a $350 price tag. Both come with a touch-screen Wii U GamePad controller.

    ?We?re making sure that Wii U owners will have great games to play from the moment they open the box, and that a steady stream of fun new games is always on the way,? Ron Bertram, Nintendo of Canada?s vice-president and general manager, said in a release. ?We have something for everyone, from new franchises to creative new approaches to familiar favourites.?

    Wii U players can connect to the Internet to access Nintendo?s eShop to buy games and download them directly onto their game consoles and they can join Miiverse, an online gaming community.

    In Canada and the United States, Nintendo TVii lets users control their television and other entertainment devices using the consoles GamePad controller.

    Nintendo is promising another 29 game titles will be released for the new Nintendo Wii U before March.

    Here?s is Nintendo?s list for the 23 games to be released on the November 18 launch date:

    1. Call of Duty: Black Ops II

    2. Skylanders Giants

    3. TRANSFORMERS PRIME

    4. Wipeout 3

    5. Disney Epic Mickey 2: The Power of Two

    6. EA SPORTS FIFA Soccer 13

    7. TEKKEN TAG TOURNAMENT Wii U Edition

    8. New Super Mario Bros. U

    9. NINJA GAIDEN 3: Razor?s Edge

    10. Nintendo Land

    11. SiNG PARTY

    12. Sonic & All-Stars Racing Transformed

    13. WARRIORS OROCHI 3 Hyper

    14. Darksiders II

    15. Assassin?s Creed III

    16. ESPN Sports Connection

    17. Just Dance 4

    18. Rabbids Land

    19. Your Shape: Fitness Evolved 2013

    20. ZombiU

    21. Scribblenauts Unlimited

    22. Game Party Champions

    23. Batman: Arkham City Armored Edition

    Source: http://o.canada.com/2012/09/26/nintendo-announces-23-games-launching-with-wii-u-console-in-november/

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    Tuesday, September 25, 2012

    Recipe: Mixed Bean Masala with Fragrant Yellow Rice Recipes ...

    2012_09_25-BeanMasala01.jpgMy stepdad brought Indian home cooking into my life. He and my mother had been high school sweethearts, American students at an international school in the foothills of the Himalayas where my stepdad had grown up, stuffing himself on dal and pappadums throughout childhood and cultivating a lifelong craving for fragrant vegetarian curries. Thanks to him and to recipes like this mixed bean masala, it's a craving I now share. Quick, healthy and economical, it's an easy recipe to double and freeze in preparation for chilly winter nights, when the scent of onion, ginger and spices bubbling on the stove will warm up the whole house.

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    This recipe is a riff on chana masala ? a curry of spiced chickpeas in a gingery tomato sauce ? using any type of cooked bean you happen to have on hand. You can use just one type of bean, but for color and texture variety, I like using a mixture. (I doubled the recipe for the batch pictured above, and used a mix of white beans, black beans and chickpeas.) Although plain white or brown rice is a fine accompaniment, my favorite way to eat curries like these is spooned over turmeric-spiced yellow rice, which looks special, but is just as easy to make as plain rice.

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    The key to the tomato sauce is blending the onion, garlic and ginger into a smooth paste that is added to the pot after the dry spices have been fried in a little oil. The warmed spices and aromatic paste meld with the tomatoes into a smooth and very flavorful sauce. After adding the beans, some fresh cilantro, and chilies if you like it spicy, you let everything simmer for 30 minutes, just enough time to make a pot of yellow rice, and then dinner is served.

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    One batch is enough to give my two-person household dinner and enough leftovers for a couple of lunches, but when I really want to maximize my time in the kitchen, I double the recipe and freeze the extra for future meals. The rice recipe can be doubled and frozen too; as long as it is kept separate from the sauce until serving, it won't become mushy, and you'll have a nourishing meal in the freezer, ready to heat when you need it.

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    Mixed Bean Masala

    Makes 6 servings

    1 onion
    2 cloves garlic
    1-inch piece of ginger, peeled
    1 tablespoon water
    2 tablespoons vegetable oil
    1 teaspoon ground cumin
    1 teaspoon garam masala
    1/2 teaspoon ground coriander
    1/2 teaspoon salt (more if canned tomatoes are unsalted)
    1 28-ounce can chopped tomatoes
    2 15-ounce cans beans, drained and rinsed
    2 tablespoons cilantro, coarsely chopped, plus more for serving
    Chopped fresh chilies or red pepper flakes to taste (optional)
    Fragrant Yellow Rice, for serving (recipe below)
    Plain yogurt, for serving (optional)

    Roughly chop the onions, garlic and ginger. Process in a food processor or blender until a smooth paste forms, adding up to 1 tablespoon water if needed.

    Heat the oil in a large saucepan over medium heat and add the cumin, garam masala and coriander. Fry the spices for 1 to 2 minutes, stirring frequently, until fragrant. Add the onion-ginger paste and cook for another 2 minutes, stirring, until most of the added water has evaporated. Add the salt, tomatoes, beans, cilantro and chilies or pepper flakes, if using. Bring to a boil and lower heat. Simmer uncovered 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. Taste and adjust seasoning. Garnish with additional chopped cilantro and serve over rice, with a dollop of yogurt on the side.

    Fragrant Yellow Rice

    Adapted from Madhur Jaffrey's Indian Cooking. Makes about 6 cups cooked rice

    2 cups jasmine rice
    2 cups water
    1 bay leaf
    2-inch piece of cinnamon stick
    3 whole cloves
    3/4 teaspoon turmeric
    1 teaspoon salt
    2 tablespoons butter or olive oil

    Rinse the rice 2 or 3 times and drain. Add the rice, water, bay leaf, cinnamon, cloves, turmeric and salt to a medium size pot and bring to a boil over medium-high heat. Cover, turn the heat to low and cook for 10 minutes. Remove pot from heat and let sit, still covered, for 10 minutes. Uncover and remove the bay leaf, cinnamon stick and cloves. Add butter or oil and stir.

    Additional Notes
    ? If you want to substitute another type of rice (basmati, brown, etc.), increase the amount of water and cooking time according to the package directions.

    ? To freeze, let finished stew cool, then pack into freezer bags or freezer-safe containers and store in the freezer for up to 3 months. Rice can also be frozen in a separate container. To reheat the beans, thaw in the refrigerator overnight or in the microwave, and warm in a pot on the stove until bubbling. The rice reheats best covered in the microwave.

    Related: Cheap, Convenient & Better Than Canned: Freezer Beans

    (Images: Anjali Prasertong)

    Source: http://www.thekitchn.com/recipe-mixed-bean-masala-with-fragrant-yellow-rice-177562

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    AngelHack Goes International For Its Next Hackathon

    angelhack logoThe last time I talked up AngelHack, I was impressed that the hackathon had spread to two coasts. Looks like that wasn't enough for founder and CEO Greg Gopman ? the fall version of the event has now grown to include five international cities, including Tel Aviv, London, Santiago, Paris, and Toronto. It is, Gopman says, the largest hackathon in the world, with 2,500 attendees in cities. The next one kicks off on November 9, with events staggered throughout November and early December, depending on the city.

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    Google Maps for Android takes navigation indoors for France, helps find your way through Carrefour

    Google Maps for Android takes navigation indoors for France, helps find your way through Carrefour

    Interior navigation with Google Maps for Android has usually been the province of only a handful of regions at best. But what about Provence? While the deal isn't all-encompassing, Google is now serving indoor maps for popular locations throughout France. Coverage starts with the major airports in Paris and Lyon, extending to include major nationwide stores like Carrefour and FNAC, shopping centers like the Carrousel du Louvre and museums like La Géode. All told, over 50 venues have signed onboard and should be enough for those moments when you're rushing to catch a connecting flight at Orly... or just want to find the salad dressings in aisle three.

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    Monday, September 24, 2012

    Ever Feel Like a Failure? - Self Improvement Tips

    Feeling of Failure

    Have you ever been hit by reality? By this, I mean that you?ve been living in a fairy tale-like world. You thought that nothing could have gone wrong. Perhaps you even imagined that everything was perfect in your life. Unicorns existed and everything else ended in a happily ever after.

    Then one day, you received a nasty taste of reality. You are dawned by what?s happening in life, and you suddenly get pulled into this rut. It feels as if you need to rethink everything.

    I felt like this not too long ago. It felt as if I was a complete failure, heading in the wrong direction. Fortunately when I see myself in this kind of situation, it doesn?t take long for me to figure out what I?m doing wrong.

    Do you feel as if your life is going nowhere?

    When you feel this way, you tend to become more aware of yourself. When you are hit by this kind of reality, realization comes into play.

    You may suddenly stop with a sense of disappointment of what you lack.

    You may even feel the urge to make changes. This is all nothing more than you getting a wake up call from reality.

    The first thing that you need to do is to ask yourself if what you?re doing is important. If it isn?t, step up and say, ?Enough is enough? and take actions. You know what priorities you have, and you need to act on it. Otherwise, you will go nowhere.

    For too long, I?ve been self-conceited and boastful. Being an egotistic helped me in some ways, but I was becoming a narcissist. I would not allow anyone to give me his or her opinions. As a result, I thought that my whole made up world was the best thing to exist. And that is why when reality hits, I am disappointed.

    I have gotten much better now, being more open-minded. I?ve stopped thinking about how I am all that, because the truth is, I?m not at all.

    Maybe you are disappointed at things that you can?t change. Try taking others? opinions as a chance, to see what you can do.

    Perhaps by realizing that you did the best that you could have done, it will minimize any disappointment that you carry. Acknowledge to yourself that you?re doing the best that you can.

    At one point, having fame and fortune was my goal. As I grow up, I began to realize that only a minority of people would actually be able to attain this kind of thing.

    I had to appreciate what I had, or I was going to be living a miserable life for a long time. I had also found that having high expectations would get me nowhere.

    Why Some People Do What They Do

    Look at bodybuilders. Many people would not find their size appealing at all. You may even be disgusted at them, who knows. Yet, why do they continue to get bigger every year?

    What about Steve Jobs? People at one point preferred Windows to Macs. What if he simply stopped believing in Apple because he couldn?t take the heat?

    It all starts by looking at the big picture, and doing what you believe in doing.

    Sometimes it may be best to rethink part of your life. But for the most part, it?s usually about doing what you love doing, and actually doing it. Even if people say that you aren?t capable of it, you still need to go out and prove them wrong.

    As long as you wake up each morning, looking forward to your goals, you are heading in the right direction. If it doesn?t feel this way, set a time (preferably as soon as this article is over) and sit down.

    Think to yourself ?what do I want to do??? At one point, your inner childhood used to dream of becoming a rock star, a scientist, or even an astronaut. Are you keeping those childhood dream alive?

    When there is an end goal that you can agree on, don?t start it off right away. Instead, chop it up into small, mini goals?like when you?re eating your steak. Otherwise, you will not be able to take it all in.

    You may feel like crap. But everyone feels like this at one point. It feels as if you?re phased out with the rest of the world. From my experience, it?s not that the world is fazing you out; it?s that you don?t believe in yourself enough.

    Remember that before any success and a ?happily ever after? occurs, there must be a sense of self-belief to keep you moving forward.

    The truth is, you and I are human. The occasional feeling of doubts and failures are certain to happen when we face an undiscovered territory.

    It is something that is embedded in the human instinct. Don?t worry about whether you?ll make it through or not, but worry more about whether you?re going to take the steps to uncover the area, and how you plan on doing that.


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